Don’t Walk Alone In Life

Everywhere you look there are things invented to make your life easier, products, tools, strategies, and services. I am willing to bet money on the fact that you have several if not hundreds of these items in your possession right now.  Items you rely on daily to get everything you need done, keep yourself organized and cut down on the time it takes you to do things.

What there also is out there are people.

People willing to help when needed.

People who know more than you do.

People who have already been where you’re currently at.

People who have the skills, resources, and knowledge you need to get to exactly where you want to be in a much quicker and simpler way then you’re doing right now.

But what are you doing?

Well, you’re not asking for help. You’re playing superman, you’re too proud, to busy, and to undeserving to get the help you need.

What I find really ironic is that as busy moms, dad, entrepreneurs, CEO’s, and business owners we are constantly searching for tools, tricks, and products to make our life easier. To get the things done we need to. To be more efficient. To reduce our stress. But the one thing we aren’t doing is looking for help in other people.

There is this unspoken belief that if you reach out for help from someone else you’ll look as if you don’t have your life or business all together. Like you can’t handle what you’ve taken on and like you aren’t capable of helping others.

This couldn’t be farther from the truth.

The most successful people in life don’t get that way because they did it on their own.

The happiest people aren’t the ones who are so consumed by the amount of items on their to do list that they can’t take time for themselves.

The people who are living stress free are not the ones who are relying solely on themselves to handle ever single aspect of their own life and business.

Reaching out, asking of help and allowing others to do for you is a huge part of being successful, of living the life you want, and of fulfilling your purpose and your obligation in this life.

When you try to do it all on your own you’re not only stressed out, short on time, and unhappy, but you’re also sending a message out to the universe that you don’t NEED any help. Your sending any help, assistance and guidance in the opposite direction. Any easy way, any shortcut, any blessing in disguise, and all the simple solutions are eluding you.

The Laws of the Universe are always working for you in every capacity they can. So the Law of Attraction is bring more of what you want, speak of, focus on and do, into your life. Law of Action is telling us that when we engage in action things have to begin to work and support out thoughts dreams and words. The Law of Cause and Effect states that nothing happens by chance and that every action has a reaction or consequence. And there are many others. But the bottom line here is whatever you focus on, work words, speak about and act on, the universe will have to produce more of what you want and give you what you request.

So when you do things on your own, when you refuse to get help, guidance and assistance you are asking the universe to let you do it on your own. 

And that is what you will get.

There will be no help, even from the universe.

Things will look as if they are fighting against you. There will be no easy way out. There will be no synchronistic events that help to guide you on your path. There will be very little opportunities simply placed before you.

Aside from the Laws of the Universe, you also have your FREE WILL. Your free will to do as you please, your free will to take things all on for yourselves, and the free will to not allow Divine guidance to place people in your path to help you.

When you deny the offerings of people, when you try to do things on your own, when you fail to receive as much as you give, then you are using your free will and the Laws of the Universe deliver to you more of exactly what you have and ask for.

Making things harder for yourself is the number one most foolish things you can do.

There is no metal of honor for completing everything on your own.

There is no award at the end of your life for not being helped to get to where you must go.

There is simply no point in life or business if you insist on doing it all yourself.

Open your life up to the many possibilities that await you. Allow everything and everyone who was meant to impact your life to do what they can for you. Let the people who are great at what they do make your life and your business that much greater as well.

Reaching out, asking for help, and then allowing people to do for you as much as you do for others is how the flow of existence works. It’s how you remain balanced. It’s how you lower your stress, increase your time, and create the business and life you KNOW you are meant to.